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I don’t like my job

Posted by  on  April 22, 2019

Category: My dating history
Once I dated a professional, highly-educated, typical rich boy. A never really ‘had’ to work kind of guy. He didn’t like his job and never really wanted to work; he knew his parents would back him up financially anyway. I like boys who love their jobs, work hard and take pride in what they do. All the people close to him were the same. They talked about how bad their days were and how much

Game on

Posted by  on  April 21, 2019

Category: My dating history
Some people treat dating like a game. If the person you’re dating is treating it like a game, you’re completely wasting your time. Using “hard-to-get” techniques learnt from dating advice books doesn’t work in this modern age. Times have changed, we don’t have time to play around and use cheap Hollywood pick-up lines anymore. I dated a man who completely followed every step and pick up technique in a book written decades ago by an

I love you but ….

Posted by  on  April 12, 2019

Category: My dating history
When I was in my late 20s, I was with a man who was very controlling and dominating. He made me feel like I was always doing something wrong, even though I wasn’t doing anything bad. I have no idea how much I cried during that period of my life. The craziest thing is that we broke up 3 times during the 2 years we were together. All 3 times were his decision. We did